Where have you been?" He's got two studios. One's in Nashville, one's in Florida. He's been a producer, a ranger, just a genius.
So, he mentioned something about, he was doing this job that he loved, and then something else came along, and he said, "So, I just went with that."
And I said to him, "Then, you were doing something that you loved, you were making great money, and you left it to do something else. Why?"
He said, Ka, we're going to be 50 this year. We don't know how much longer we have on the planet. You gotta f*** fear and do what makes you happy."
I was like, "Oh, yeah, there's that." And not long after that, I moved out of my long-term relationship, that was essentially comatose and went off on my own.
You know, being on the train and having people say to me, "Would you like a seat?" I started to say, "Who am I trying to kid with coloring my hair?
Maybe I look...I don't know. Maybe I look 60. I don't know. I don't even know what that means." But, beyond that, I just started getting curious.
"I wonder what my hair looks like? I wonder what my real hair looks like, and what would it be like if I didn't have to have that anxiety?
Oh, god, my roots are showing," or, "It's orange. I have to dye my hair. What would it be like if I just let my hair grow?"
I'm 60 and three-quarters. I have earned all of this. It's who I am, and I don't want to pretend anymore.
So, it's like, the grays, and I call them "my grace." It's not my grays, it's my grace, shouting out from my rooftop.
Because I just, it's like, "Yeah." It's the sense of freedom, again. It's that sense of, "This is my hair. This is what it looks like.
If I wanted to, I could always dye it again." I don't think I will, but I'm really looking forward to seeing what it looks like in its natural state.
I used the mask last night. I've never used a mask before. But, I was like...put the mask on.
It was great. I was like, "Wow, this feels good." And I washed it off, and then I put the silk on before I went to bed.
And today, I put it on my face, and I put it on my feet and my hands. It feels really good. I like that there's no fragrance.
Twenty, 30, I think I was numb. I just think, again, I was numb from all the stuff that I was supposed to do, the stuff that I had to do, the being a good girl, doing everything the right way.
And I think, I really think, back then, and even maybe up until last year or whatever, I think feeling sexy was more related to a physical thing, the physical aspect of being sexy.
I don't think I was able to feel beyond, sexy means being sexy, being able to attract someone, being able to do certain things.
It's not about that at all. It's just about being in the world, and connecting with people, and feeling really confident about yourself.