I see aging as a new developmental stage. In my 40s, there was one phase, in my 50s maybe another, and it's continued.
I would say the whole course of my life is really about listening to what's really there. And I've done a lot of practices and my work with other people is very much about that, so it's been an unfolding process. So I would say it's evolved, I don't know when it... At a particular point, it wasn't like that. It was gradual.
I work with people through the body from the inside out somatically. And so it's really about listening from inner experience. And I used to feel like I needed to be effective when I was working with people, they had to come out of there knowing something, naming something, recognizing something with a real clarity and I felt pressure inside, a gentle pressure but it was a pressure.
When I work now, I have no agenda except to be in resonance with the person in myself, and with the person. The agenda emerges from that. There is no...I don't have to have yet another goal because it becomes clear what it needs to be when I'm in that relaxed connection with somebody.
I still do a lot. But, I would say the big shift is into being, more being less doing or when I'm doing, being more as I'm doing.